They lost homes, neighbors and cherished communities to Hurricane Katrina. Some are uprooted, far... Victims share thanks in wa

They lost homes, neighbors and cherished communities to Hurricane Katrina. Some are uprooted, far from the only place they ever knew. Others have returned to the cities they love, to pick up the pieces and start over.

They will gather this Thanksgiving Day with family and friends to reflect back and look forward. But when tragedy scars the soul, what is left to be thankful for?

Just about everyone who’s anyone in the restaurant business in New Orleans knows Raymond "Pops" Thomas. He started as an apprentice cook at the famed Roosevelt Hotel, back when black people needed permission from the boss to walk into the French Quarter after dark. As a chef, he spent a decade at Brennan’s Restaurant and 12 years at Commander’s Palace. He’s still a food consultant at Acme Oyster House, where most afternoons he could be found chatting up the cooks, relishing life in the city he’s called home since he was a boy. That is, until Katrina.

"The storm, it’s just sort of one of those things that God give me. And I was just thankful that I wasn’t in the catastrophe that the people in the Ninth Ward was in. I was just above the water level ... the only thing that we got was just the wind and the rain."

"The folks stood with us and helped us stand up when we were down, and I’m just grateful for the United States of America and all the people who made our plight a part of their lives."

Calliham saved some family photos, his grandmother’s handmade quilts, his mother’s paintings - but he figured the house itself was unsalvageable. Then one day a church group from New Hampshire showed up to carry ruined furniture and wallboard away. Their kindness gave him strength. He has $10,000 in insurance and government aid and needs at least $50,000 to rebuild, but he’s going to try.

Last Thanksgiving was a somber affair, coming two months after his father’s death. But he, brother Gary and their mom watched the Dallas Cowboys as they always had. This year, Calliham and his brother won’t have their folks, or Mom’s punch with lime sherbet and ginger ale. But they’ll watch their Cowboys, like always.

"The biggest thing I’m thankful for is that my brother and our friends and our fellow Wavelanders survived Katrina, and that we didn’t lose as many of our neighbors as we feared we had."

"I’m thankful for my family and the help they’ve given me - my Aunt Chris, Aunt Adaline, Uncle David, Karen and her mom and dad, and the rest of the family. I’m thankful for my friends who ... sent me care packages - clothing and shoes."

He’s spent a lifetime serving others, as a waiter at some of the world’s finest dining establishments. George V in Paris. Louis XVI in New Orleans. And now Irene’s Cuisine, a French Quarter favorite. Customers in the know don’t reserve a table, they reserve an attendant: the always warm and gracious John Parry. He never imagined that his customers and boss, friends old and new, would one day attend to his needs.

On dialysis and recovering from a hernia operation, Parry was trapped by floodwaters in his apartment after Katrina struck. Finally rescued by boat, he was sent to a shelter in Baton Rouge, where kindly doctors and nurses administered care, arranged delivery of dialysis equipment to a friend’s house in Florida, even reserved plane tickets for the trip.

When Parry returned to New Orleans in October and found his home in ruins, his boss, Irene DiPietro, offered the key to her French Quarter apartment; customers came by with cash or clothes. Now Parry’s back at work.

"The first thing I notice, the warmth in the people. ... Clothes-wise, you name it. Money-wise. Food. You have no idea the generosity of people, and how it has come out in this horrible time."

"I never believed, in a million years, the generosity of my customers. ... They call in every day and they leave their telephone numbers and they find out my address and all of a sudden I get a mail from them."

"We have a little restaurant ’round the corner ... and we go there sometimes during the lunch and have a hamburger or something. And, you know, I find people that I know in there, and all of a sudden I ask for the check ... and they say, ‘Oh, no. The check has been taken care of by so and so, and so and so.’ And it goes on forever."

Christa Ervin remembers a time when the kids at Long Beach High joked how great it would be if a storm destroyed their school so they wouldn’t have to go to class. Now, post-Katrina, the high school is one of the few local structures still intact; students elsewhere are attending classes in trailers.

On Nov. 5, in a dress she purchased during the summer, the Long Beach senior attended her last homecoming dance - a Hollywood-themed extravaganza organized by a group of Pennsylvania students who raised more than $30,000 to put on the dance and then traveled to Mississippi with donated gowns, a deejay and door prizes. Senior year is supposed to be about graduating, getting out of school. But Christa’s just happy to be back.

"To tell you the truth, we would hope for a hurricane to blow our school away ... and I’m very thankful that my school is still there. These kids ... that are going in trailers, I know I couldn’t imagine doing it."

"You just don’t think about stuff like that because most hurricanes never do anything. ... I was so ready to start school and see everybody, just to know that everybody’s OK."

Darlene Poole walked away from her old life with nothing but a plastic container stuffed with clothes, identification cards and family photos. The former Orleans Parish sheriff’s deputy didn’t know she’d be heading to Illinois until she and other evacuees boarded a plane. While some family members went to Houston, she ended up sheltered in a vacant building at the Elgin Mental Health Center, northwest of Chicago.

Volunteers offered a comforting shoulder, practical tips and extraordinary generosity. Poole is now friends with a couple who’ve provided free rent for six months in an apartment above their home. Another benefactor gave her the keys to a 1998 Toyota Corolla for $1. Poole works with troubled kids and ex-felons, helping them get their lives on track as part of a community college program. She’ll mark Thanksgiving with another evacuee she met after the storm, a man she affectionately calls "my little brother."

"There’s a whole lot of things to be thankful for this year. I didn’t lose any family members and I’m grateful for that. ... I’m not ... homeless. And I’m just really thankful for the kindness and generosity of the people here."

"In New Orleans, it was like a nightmare. I couldn’t believe it. It was just like I was in a daze. I was in a survival mode. I didn’t think about what I was going through ... until I was actually here in Illinois and I was able to let my guard down and listen to the news and see all the devastation. ... But time, time and the kindness and generosity of people here has just helped me overcome."

A military wife, Teddi Hernandez never intended to build lasting ties in Gulfport, Miss. What was the point? Bonds would be broken when she and her husband, Carlos, moved on. Then Carlos, a Navy Seabee, deployed to Japan in June, and Hernandez found herself all alone when Katrina struck. Her friends are now a second family she leans on.

At the salon and spa where she works as a receptionist, co-workers and customers were so worried Hernandez would be by herself this Thanksgiving, dinner invitations came in a steady stream. She’ll instead spend the holiday with her mother’s family in Wyoming - with a new regard for the Mississippi friends she’ll return home to.

"I’ve been down here without any family, and I’m pretty much by myself except for the people that I have at work that are close to me now and have really helped me out and helped me through the hurricane and the time that my husband’s been gone. This Thanksgiving, I am extremely thankful to have the friends that I have down here. They’re kind of like my extended family."

"And I also get to go home and see my grandparents this Thanksgiving. We thought it would be good, since we realized after the hurricane how important family is. You don’t get to see each other and don’t know if that one day you’re never going to be able to see them again."

Their baby was due the day before Thanksgiving, but when Katrina struck, Kerry Battle and Kayantae Synigal fled the Ninth Ward of New Orleans for Lake Charles, La., where Synigal was hospitalized after she began dilating too soon. Determined not to bring his child home to a shelter, Battle got on the Internet in search of housing. On Sept. 22, the couple arrived in Fountain Hills, Ariz., with their 7-year-old daughter, Beonce.

The baby arrived on Oct. 15. Though born premature weighing just 4 pounds, 13 ounces, she is home now, healthy as can be. The proud parents named her Amira, short for "a miracle."

Battle: "Ah, man, our blessings? ... The fact that we had Amira and she’s healthy. There’s nothing wrong with her. She was premature, but she has no defects, no breathing problems, nothing of the sort. She’s in perfect condition."

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